taffyroses:

Life is unfair. You put someone first who puts you second. You study your ass off for a final only to get a C. You give 110% to someone in a relationship who only gives 40%. You’re there for a best friend at 3:00am and the next day they don’t pick up their phone. It seems like you’re giving everyone everything and they’re just walking away with it.

i feel you, but the thing is….you just have to give to yourself sometimes too. of course life is gonna suck if you just people please and you beat yourself up about stuff and dwell on what doesn’t go right. heck i dwell and worry my bum off but hey, no one said life is fair. but life is beautiful. you just have to accept that things might rarely go your way, but the times when life doesn’t slap you in the face makes all of this worth it. and you can always slap life right back and say ‘well i am going to see some friends rather than study for that awful final’ or you actually confront (not aggressively) the friend who stopped talking and if you work through what is setting up a barrier, you will receive much less lifeslaps. life is like sherlock holmes. you either end up in jail with your life figured out and ruined, or you go for a magical joyride filled with emotional rollercoatsers but plenty of bittersweet memories and laughs.